Monday Morning Musings …

Moms were honored, those with empty arms were remembered, the Spirit moved and smiles were plentiful. In other words, it was a very good Mother’s Day. As for my musings …

-I am blessed. I had a wonderful mom, my wife is a great mother and my daughters and daughter in law are awesome moms to my grandkids. All of them love (loved) Jesus and model(ed) following Christ passionately and all of us who have been blessed to be near them are so much better for having shared life with them.

-Yesterday was another wonderful mediocre weather Sunday. I loved it. If this confuses you read last Monday’s musings.

-I was disappointed in myself yesterday. The sermon went much better during my practice run than it did at either of my churches. I felt like I was preaching uphill all morning. I just couldn’t seem to get any traction or momentum during the sermon. As always, I pray that God’s voice was heard through the moving of the Holy Spirit where my voice failed. Fortunately God is always faithful.

-Attendance was up at my 9:00 church a little and the attendance was very good at my 10:30 church. We are experiencing a new normal at the 10:30 church with the attendance regularly being near what it was yesterday. It was fun to see a few people have to sit away from their “normal spot” because of the growth we have been experiencing. I am praying for everyone to see this as a positive thing.

-By all accounts the Mother’s Day breakfast, provided and served, by the men at my 10:30 church went very well. In fact someone thought of me and put a take home box of leftovers in the fridge for me. I heated it up and enjoyed them this morning.

-At my 9:00 church a lady hand sewed purses for every mom in attendance. They could take the one of their choosing and another lady gave each mom another special personal gift.

-Mother’s Day can be difficult for some ladies. Those who desire to be a mom and have not been blessed with a child to this point, those who have lost a child and those who have a strained relationship with a child struggle emotionally on Mother’s Day. I prayed for all of them in my private time of prayer yesterday and during our time of worship as well.

-I am very grateful that there was candy left from the basket full of it that was available to the moms at my 10:30 church. I enjoyed it yesterday afternoon and evening. Don’t judge me I didn’t eat all of it. Yet.

-Yesterday was the first sermon in a new series “7 Building Blocks of Great Relationships” that will continue through Father’s Day. Each week we will focus on one word and what the Bible has to say about it and how it applies to all of our relationships. The word yesterday was “caring”. An appropriate word on Mother’s Day. We unpacked Luke 10:25-37 (the Good Samaritan) to learn how to apply care to our relationships.

-This coming Sunday a part of the sermon is going to be me just opening my heart as to why I am so burdened about relationships. I will share some of my passion for healing in our relationships. At least, I am planning to share in this manner, we will see if I can get through it.

-We have now had 3 times of our early (5:30 to 6:30 am) prayer times. These are on Mondays and Fridays. I am encouraged because people have shown up and God has definitely shown up during these times.

-This coming Saturday night we are hosting another of the Community Concerts of Prayer. This will be the 7th one of these in the past 9 months. Several churches and pastors in our town have joined together to pray for revival in our city, county and beyond. We have had anywhere from 30 to 250 in attendance at these times that are focused solely on prayer. No wonder God is beginning to move in our community.

-I am very excited that a few people have indicated a desire to be baptized. We are planning a baptism service in the very near future. Each one will share their personal testimony before they are baptized. Imagine the impact of a crowd hearing several people telling their journey to salvation. Already praying for this service.

Here’s hoping that you see someone to encourage today and that you realize you are being lifted in prayer.

Dennis

I Wish I Would have Known …

When I was starting out as a pastor, I wish I would have known that Sundays are often hard to let go of. Recently I saw a tweet from Thom Rainer (@ThomRainer) “There are two Sundays in a pastor’s week; the one they are getting over and the one they are getting ready for.” This statement is so true. It is frustrating to be well into the week and still be processing the previous Sunday at a time I should be fully focused on the coming Sunday.

Granted, it is necessary to be aware of what transpired the previous Sunday. Evaluation is always a good thing and should take place each week. But for a pastor it goes deeper and is more personal than just checking the numbers and the “feeling” of the services.

The pastor replays his message over in his/her mind after a Sunday. Sometimes many times. The pastor replays comments made about the service over and over again. Especially if there were any negative comments. A pastor plays the “if only” game about the previous Sunday. The “if only” game is where you recall things that you wish would have gone differently and imagine how the services would have changed “if only”.

All of these replays and wonderings can take precious mental and emotional energy away from preparation for the coming Sunday.

I wish I would have known just hard it can be to let go of the Sunday I have just finished. I have learned some coping skills through the years, but I still wrestle with the previous Sunday almost until the coming Sunday arrives. Though I have learned to use the experiences of the previous Sunday to help me in the coming Sunday, I often find myself still fighting with things that I should put behind me.

So if you see your pastor staring off into space with a perplexed look on his/her face in the middle of the week, just pray for them as they learn from and let go of the previous Sunday. I must also confess that sometimes when I am stuck staring off into space in the middle of the week it may not have anything to do with the previous Sunday, I may just be wondering if there are any chocolate chip cookies still in the church kitchen from the last potluck meal. I am sure my wife is shaking her head as she reads that last sentence.

So to the younger pastors: you are not losing your mind if you are having trouble letting go of the last Sunday. But don’t let the previous Sunday rob you of the joy of looking forward to the coming Sunday. Expect God to speak through you. Expect God to move in powerful ways. Expect some things to not go as planned. Expect to play a little “if only” and expect God to carry you through to the next Sunday and all of the ones to follow.

Excuse me, I suddenly feel a need to go check on the state of the church kitchen.

Dennis

Monday Morning Musings …

Yesterday was a very emotional day for me as I preached on God’s vision. It was also the first time that I preached a different sermon at each of the two churches where I serve. As for my musings …

-I got my Sunday morning weather wish yesterday. The weather was mediocre. My theory is that attendance is best on Sundays when the weather is mediocre. If it is really nice people tend to say “it is so nice let’s go do something”, if it is bad they tend to say “it is too bad to get out and go anywhere today”, but when it is mediocre they come to church. We had very good attendance at both churches yesterday. I wish it was mediocre weather every Sunday morning. Just kidding, maybe.

-This preaching, and preparing, 2 different sermons to be preached back to back on Sunday morning takes a lot out of you. At least for me it does.

-The reason for the different sermons is because I was preaching on vision and the two churches are currently at very different places in their ministries right now.

-There was a good spirit in my 9:00 church. People seemed pretty engaged during the whole service and especially during the message. The focus was on getting ourselves ready to receive the vision God has for us.

-On Saturday there were 16 of us from the 2 churches who attended, and participated in, our District’s annual convention for our Sunday School/Discipleship, Missions and Youth ministries. It was a very positive day and it was the first time to attend a District event like this for 4 of the people. I love watching people as they begin to see that we are a part of something much bigger than just our local church(es).

-Yesterday afternoon my wife and I attended a volleyball event to watch some local teens play. We went because we were invited by an unchurched family with which we are building a relationship. So, no Sunday afternoon nap, but reaching people is worth it.

-I love sharing, teaching or preaching on vision, but it always takes a lot out of me. I always get fired up when sharing on vision and yesterday was no exception.

-I am really looking forward to sharing tonight on baptism. Tonight anyone who desires to be baptized, or is curious about baptism is coming and I will teach a little and then answer questions. This will be fun.

-Yesterday I heard from several people who are desiring to get engaged in both some existing, and some new ministries. That put a huge smile on my face. In fact I am smiling as I type this.

-This is a new month which means we are a little closer to our son, daughter in law, and 5 of our grandkids coming to the states from their missionary service in Africa. I am just a little bit, okay a whole lot, excited about this fact.

-There was an electric feel to the worship service at my 10:30 church. People were really into the music and prayer and they seemed to be very engaged during the sermon. I am very excited to see how people respond to the vision we are pursuing.

-I was able to announce that we are adding an Assistant Pastor to our staff beginning in June. This will be a part-time position, for now. He will work with me in both churches. This is a huge step for these 2 churches.

-Another positive note from yesterday is that some people asked about becoming members. That is always a good thing.

-This morning we started a 5:30 am prayer time. Two days a week, for now, we are going to open the building and have designated times of prayer from 5:30 to 6:30 in the morning. People can come and go for any of this time that they are able to be here. This morning there were 5 of us who came and prayed. That is a great beginning. I am not by nature a morning person, but I know that we need to get more serious about actually praying, not just making prayer lists. I am also praying that some people will rise up and seek to lead some other times of prayer throughout the week. These are in addition to personal times of prayer. Nothing of great significance ever seems to happen without people first engaging in prayer.

Here’s hoping that you know someone is praying for you this week. If no one else is praying for you I will, just let me know and I will pray for you.

Dennis

Monday Afternoon Musings …

It seems to happen often. In my opinion it is the opposite of what should happen. I understand the arguments on why it does happen and why it shouldn’t happen. But this discussion is actually part of my musings, so let’s get on with the musings …

-Last week I was sharing about the awesome time in worship we experienced at my 10:30 church the previous Sunday. That was not the case yesterday. It wasn’t a bad day, it was just kind of flat. I felt like there was a wall up as I was preaching yesterday. My wife felt something similar during the music. It so counterintuitive to me. I always expect that the week after a great time of worship that the next week the service would be as powerful if not even more powerful. Instead it often seems the next week falls flat. I don’t know if it is everyone sitting back waiting for something to happen or if it is simply the up and down nature of people.

-My 9:00 church had a good service and the prayer time and sermon went well with very good engagement by people and a few who responded to the message.

-I loved the awesome message in all of our music yesterday. My wife did an awesome job on the song “Break Every Chain” leading into the sermon about being set free.

-Even with things falling a bit flat at the 10:30 church there were still a couple of people who responded to being set free. Fortunately God is not dependent on my emotions.

-Attendance was good, not great, but good in both churches.

-We had a very good time in the Sunday evening small groups. A lot of good sharing and discussion. Praying for those who attended to apply what was studied throughout the week.

-We had a great time with the church boards of both churches and their spouses on Saturday evening. We met with a couple that I have been interviewing about the possibility of joining us as a part-time Assistant Pastor. It was a good time of sharing and we are praying about the next steps.

-I read a blog post that Thom Rainer posted about some statements people make that cause pastors to cringe. I didn’t agree with quite a bit of the post. Sometimes we pastors get upset about some silly things. I include myself in this group. Come on, let’s not be so thin skinned. I get it if someone threatens us with our job, or criticizes our spouse or kids, but after that let people have their say. Respond if appropriate and then go on and do what you are called to do. We are not the only group who gets criticized. Have you ever attended a sporting event and listened to the criticism directed at coaches, umpires, referees and the athletes? We should not be above criticism, but we also should be able to respond in a reasonable manner as well. Enough of my rant.

-My sermon next Sunday is on Vision and sharing some of what I am convinced God is leading us into in this next season of ministry. I am always excited to share about vision and somewhat fearful as I discover some of the ways in which God desires to stretch us in this season of our ministry.

-Wow, I am having trouble focusing this morning. Could be I need a little more sleep. Maybe I need to go fishing. Maybe it is just Monday, whatever the reason it has prompted me to not get these musings done until after noon this week.

Here’s hoping you are able to focus on what is important this week and that you take some time to appreciate all that God is doing in your life.

Dennis

Monday Morning Musings …

This morning I am having trouble putting into words what God did yesterday. A few words or phrases that spring to mind are: memorable, moving, life-changing, freeing, empowering and take a stand moments. As for my musings …

-The altars were lined with people surrendering issues, fears, relationships, and questions about the future at the conclusion of my 10:30 church’s worship service. It was a holy time and powerful for all who were here to experience it. It was a God thing for sure. My sermon wasn’t anything special. There was nothing compelling about any of the human elements of the worship. But God … I love those “But God …” moments, don’t you? But God was present, He was working and people responded obediently to His call. It was humbling to witness that kind of movement.

-Last evening my wife and I each began a new small group study at our 9:00 church. We had a few people attend, I was hoping for a few more, but any time anyone chooses to take time to study the Word and share with others it is a very good thing.

-In the 10:30 service, I got a sense that God was up to something special during our prayer time in Worship. I just felt something in room shift and there seemed to be a different spirit during the next song we sang. There were a couple of people who just spontaneously came to the altar during that prayer time. I believe they helped set the stage for what took place at the end.

-We were missing a lot of people in both churches yesterday. Coincidentally it was an outstanding day with the best weather we have had all spring.

-On Saturday 11 ladies from my two churches were at a special Ladies Day at Olivet Nazarene University. They had a great time in fellowship with each other and were encouraged by the musician and speaker for the day. It appears that laughter was a major part of their outing.

-With my wife gone Friday evening and all day Saturday I enjoyed some outstanding junk food. Today my stomach is feeling a bit funky, but I am sure there is no correlation between those things.

-I am very excited for the next several sermons that I am working on.

(The above image is not an actual depiction of me, I am much more distinguished. I can’t believe I just typed that)

-Mondays are an interesting day for pastors. We spend time reflecting and evaluating the events of Sunday and yet are already looking ahead to the next Sunday. Sundays keep coming every 7 days. Mondays are often a day of conflicting emotions as a result.

-Prayed for a friend who ran the Boston Marathon today. He has been having some physical issues that have limited his running recently but he wasn’t about to miss this opportunity to run Boston no matter how he was feeling.

-Had a first time visitor in our 10:30 church and one who had not attended since I began at my 9:00 church. Love seeing new people.

-Spent some time in extra prayer over the weekend for a few people that are facing some extremely stressful circumstances at the moment. It seems that the “this is big” portion of my prayer list has grown exponentially in recent weeks.

-Part of yesterday’s sermon came from Mark 14:42 where Jesus said to his disciples “Rise! Let us go!” He said this as he went to meet his betrayer. I am praying that it becomes something of a rallying cry for us. Rise up! Let’s go and do what Christ is calling us to do today.

Here’s hoping that you hear the rallying call of God in your life this week. I am praying for you as you rise up. Let’s go be who we were created and called to be.

Dennis

Nodding My Head, or Moving My Feet?

I found myself doing it this week as I listened to a podcast. The “it” was nodding my head because I was agreeing with the information the speaker was sharing. I was agreeing that what was being shared was what needed to be done in order to bring change to the problem that had been presented. Nothing wrong with nodding my head in agreement. The problem is that I didn’t get up from desk and do anything with what I was agreeing with. Can you relate to this scenario? Ever said that would work, and then not do anything about it?

There seems to be some disconnect between my head and my feet. I find it much easier to nod in agreement than to take steps of agreement. Evidently there are some people in my churches that have a similar disconnect. I know this because of how often I see people nodding in agreement during a sermon or saying amen to a statement and then coming in the next Sunday with nothing changed. The truth is that sometimes I nod at my own sermon and then start working on the next sermon before I take steps to change. Man I hate to admit that, but it is the painful truth.

Maybe we need to start a support group. You know, we could gather together frequently and say “Hi, my name is Dennis and I nod in favor of change much more than I take steps to change.” Maybe that would spur us to move from nodding to walking.

As I listened to that podcast I found myself not only nodding in agreement but saying “That’s right. That will make a difference.” Then the speaker answered a question that had been sent from a listener. The essence was that the listener wanted to know how to move from gaining knowledge to taking action on the subject being discussed. The speaker informed the listener that if they were just continually gaining information with no change of behavior then they probably didn’t really want to change. OUCH!!

Wow! That was a truth bomb that really hurt. Did you feel it?

I must confess that at times I say I am interested in change more than I am willing to take the steps to change. In other words I am too often more into nodding my head than moving my feet. “Hi, my name is Dennis and I am more of a head nodder than a feet mover.”

So here’s to us encouraging each other to take a step toward our goal. To take some of that energy we are using to nod our heads and use it to move our feet. Who’s with me?

How about you? Ready to take a step? It can be a small one, just slide your foot forward. No matter how small the step is it is better than just nodding your head, isn’t it?

Here’s hoping that this Sunday many of us will move our feet. Think of the possibilities. We could begin changing our homes, our communities and beyond with just a step. Especially is we move them on Monday, or Wednesday, or, well you get the idea. Excuse me as I get up and move my feet toward my goal.

Dennis

Monday Morning Musings …

Have you ever had sometimes when things just don’t seem quite right? I think yesterday was sometimes. As for my musings …

-Maybe it was the dreary weather. Maybe it was the end of Spring Break vacation for the schools. Maybe we were just due for one of these Sundays. Whatever the cause, the energy level in both churches was very low yesterday. I have to do better and not get so impacted by the collective energy of the groups.

-It was great to be able to introduce a new baby to the congregation. One of our young couples had their 2nd child on Thursday last week and had him in church on Sunday.

-I had a great conversation with a couple of people after one of my worship services, these people were asking about what they could do to serve the church. They were asking if a small group could reserve the sanctuary for a time of prayer (you can always use the building for prayer). The answer was an emphatic YES.

-My wife and I are getting ready to start a couple of new Bible Studies at our 9:00 church. These will be on Sunday evening. We are praying for people to participate and for some real fellowship to take place among the group and with us. I am working hard to have the people in my 9:00 church to realize that I am their pastor and that I care for and love them. I am aware that since I have pastored my 10:30 church for 2+ years and the 9:00 church for 2 months that some still aren’t sure about my commitment to them. This 2 church thing has some interesting challenges that I have never faced before. But I do love a challenge.

-The annual meeting for the District of churches in my denomination in which I serve was this past weekend. It was a very encouraging and motivating time. I was especially excited because a couple of people participated for the first time. It was great for them to see the bigger picture of what we are a part of with our district and denomination.

-My message yesterday was focusing on the “Because” and “Therefore” of God’s grace and love. Part of my prayer for my people was/is that this week whenever they face any fear, any doubt, any discouragement or any temptation that they will remember “But because of God’s great love, his tender mercy and his amazing grace” they can overcome whatever comes.

-Once again my wife and I enjoyed some wonderful fellowship with a couple from church and someone we had never met over lunch on Sunday.

-Attendance was down in both churches yesterday.

-It was the 6th birthday of one of my granddaughters over the weekend. We weren’t able to be with her, but I skyped with her a couple of days before her birthday and we send her a voice message on her birthday. I love that all of my kids, and grandkids, are serving where they are supposed to be, however sometimes the distance thing stinks. It is amazing to see the transformation of my grandkids as they grow. What a blessing.

-I am hoping that yesterday was the last Sunday for me to wear a sweater until fall. I love sweaters, but this weather has gone on long enough.

Here’s hoping that you remember your “because” as you go through this week and that you pass it on to several other people.

Dennis

My Bad …

“My bad.” I have found myself thinking this a lot lately and saying it out loud some. This is a period of some brutal self-evaluation for me. Not sure exactly what triggered it but it has nearly consumed me for the past 10 days or so. It is not a fun process, but it is a necessary one. I truly desire to lead well. To lead myself, the ministry leaders in my churches and the churches where I am serving.

The trigger point for this evaluation period is likely the result of a few things that have not gone well, or at least did not go as I had envisioned. After every event, or ministry moment, I attempt to evaluate what went well and what fell below expectations. I am convinced that these evaluations are necessary, but I also acknowledge that often they are not fun experiences.

Recently there have been a series of experiences that though they may have looked okay from a distance, they left much to be desired. These evaluations have led me to think, mutter, say out loud and now write that I did not lead well in these situations.

My first reaction to these realizations was to look for someone to blame. My next realization was that the key person responsible for these less than stellar results was me.  Now that was the moment when I should have stood tall, accepted and even embraced the blame and began working to see that the outcomes would be different the next time around. The brutal truth is that instead of standing tall, I shrunk and slipped into some wonderfully miserable self-loathing and pouting.

Not my best moments for sure. I would love to tell you that this is the first time for this type of reaction and behavior on my part. Unfortunately it is not.

In the midst of this wallowing in self-pity God began speaking into my selfishness and to pile on, a book that I had ordered entitled “Extreme Ownership” by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin arrived. This book’s premise is explained clearly in the simple title. It is written by 2 former Navy Seals and they share some real battlefield experiences and the leadership lessons learned that apply in any leadership position. The bottom line is summed up in these quotes from the book: “there can be no leadership where there is no team.” “The only meaningful measure for a leader is whether the team succeeds or fails.” And “Leaders must own everything in their world. There is no one else to blame.” Did I mention that I began reading this book while God was digging into my self-pity and excuses? Did I mention that I had been wallowing in the muck of attempting to figure out who messed up in these recent mediocre happenings? Ouch!

I am still reading the book. I am still trying to listen carefully to God’s guiding for me. I am still trying to figure out what to do different next time. But I am taking the first step of recognizing, and confessing that it is “my bad.” I am not seeking pity and I don’t need anyone telling me it wasn’t “my bad”, but I need to come clean and confess that “My name is Dennis and it is my fault.”

Now, it is time to starting climbing out of the muck and get back to leading as God directs and to take ownership of what is happening. It is time to really show loving leadership and figure out how to better communicate and how to be a better example for those around me.

Dennis

Monday Morning Musings …

Yesterday was a very long and very awesome day. Yesterday was a very meaningful and impactful day. Yesterday was a great reminder of the power of what I get the privilege to do. I get to open God’s Word to wonderful people every week. I get to fellowship with some of the greatest people every week. I get to plan and prepare for the future every week. I get to wrestle with life-changing issues every week. I am exhausted and energized by what I get to do every week and I love it! As for my musings …

-Our worship service in both churches was outstanding yesterday.

-People were very engaged in the service and during the sermon yesterday. That always makes for a great day.

-I heard, and saw evidence of, great things that are taking place in some people’s lives.

-I saw the pain on some people’s faces from the struggles they are dealing with right now and my prayer list intensified.

-My wife and I enjoyed a great time of fellowship over a meal and then some great conversation following the meal yesterday. It was great to get to know some people from both churches a little better. The fact that there were 3 kids in the group and that they played and seemed to have a lot fun at our place warmed my heart. I love when you see people connect and get to know each other better.

-Attendance at my 9:00 church was very good, that is especially encouraging the Sunday after Easter and doubly so when it is the first Sunday or our local schools Spring Break.

-Attendance at my 10:30 church was good and we had a bright new family visiting.

-This past month has left me wrung out. There were so many things going on and major issues that I was working on that I didn’t realize how much it had taken out of me until the middle of last week. I hate when I feel that way.

-Sunday was encouraging and somewhat refreshing. The 8+ hours of sleep last night didn’t hurt either.

-As I get to know the people in my 9:00 church better I am able to shape the illustrations in my sermons to better connect with them. The struggle is that since my 2 churches are at very different stages I need to craft some things a little different for the message at each church. I am preaching the same message (so far, but knowing me that might not always be true) but there are some different illustrations and I may linger on one part of the message longer at one church than the other.

-I will get to hug and spend some time with our son, daughter in law and 5 of our grandkids in about 4 months. I am really excited for that time. In case you didn’t know, they are serving as missionaries in Kenya and have been there for about 3 years. They will be back in the states for a few weeks starting in the late summer.

-I sense that we are at a tipping point in my 10:30 church. In the life of every church there are key moments, tipping points to borrow from Malcom Gladwell, that if you can push through them great things take place. If you don’t push through them then you back up some and settle for a while.

-I recently read 3 very good and very different books. Craig Groschel’s “#Struggles” –Following Jesus in a Selfie World; Gary McIntosh’s “Growing God’s Church” – How People are actually coming to Faith Today, and Jen Hatmaker’s “Interrupted” – When Jesus Wrecks your Comfortable Christianity (the revised & expanded edition), I will attempt to write a review of the 3 in another post. I recommend them, but remember I enjoy reading things that challenge me, that make me think and even things that I don’t always agree with.

-Have you ever felt like you had so many things you were trying to accomplish that you weren’t finishing any of them? I am in one of those periods now and I don’t enjoy it.

-I just looked over at a note I recently received from a 5 or 6 year old who attends our church and it made me smile.

Here’s hoping that you find something that makes you smile today and that you pass that smile along to someone else. Don’t worry you won’t lose your smile, after all you can make another smile.

Dennis

Monday Morning Musings …

He is Risen! He is Risen indeed! That truth makes Easter weekend a special time no matter what happens. Special things happened this weekend which made it a very special Easter. As for my musings …

-I was privileged to witness 8 people come to faith in Christ between my 2 churches. I told you it was special!

-We had a very powerful and meaningful Good Friday service. Attendance was reasonable and the spirit was so rich. We focused on Jesus telling his disciples that what he was doing was “for you”. When he broke the bread and passed it and when he passed the cup he told them that it represented his body and blood, broken and poured out “for you”. That is a powerful phrase. He did all that he did for you. Let that marinade in your mind and soul for a while.

-On Saturday I received an incredible message from a person that I have been praying for nearly every day for over a year. The person told how God is working on them and in them. They told me how much they appreciated my ministry and just wanted me to know. My wife and I both had trouble reading the message because our eyes were full of tears. It was a keeper moment for sure.

-My message on Easter was “Seeing Easter through the Eyes of Barabbas”. It is the picture of the Gospel. A person sentenced because of their sins and Jesus took his place on the cross. As a result Barabbas was set free and able to live.

-As I was preaching I messed up Barabbas’ name a couple of times. Instead of Barabbas I said Barnabas. The difference between the two is huge. One of the times I said the wrong name I did not realize it until I saw the look of confusion on my wife’s face. Hopefully I didn’t do it any more than a couple of times.

-We had children involved in the service at both churches. As you might guess there was some challenges as far as gathering them and getting them ready to do their thing. But, everyone still loved it because the kids were up front and participating.

-My mind is processing things slower this morning. It is the normal “Monday after Easter week” sluggishness.

-At my 10:30 church we had a great crew come out on Saturday morning to help insure that the building and property were in order and ready for Easter Sunday. I love that kind of sacrifice and service. In fact one couple is here this morning helping to put some things put in their normal place that had to be moved to accommodate the Easter activities. How awesome is that?

-My 9:00 church had great attendance. In fact they had exactly double the number that attended last Easter. The good news from the attendance is that all of the people were from the area. Now to reach out and build those relationships.

-My 10:30 church was up a little from last year and we had some who had been invited often and this time they came. That is encouraging.

-My wife deserves a big break after all that she did in preparation, and participation, for both churches for all of the Easter events. She won’t be able to take much of a break, but she deserves a big one.

-The real key to Easter is what we do with the relationships with those who visited yesterday. If we just wait till next Easter or Christmas we have failed those people. We must be intentional in building those relationships and reaching out throughout the year. The real work begins this week in the follow up.

-From what I hear, the breakfast at my 10:30 church went very well. There was great fellowship, good food and a good number of people who came and shared with each other. I can only report what I heard since I was at my 9:00 church during this breakfast. Sadly, they didn’t save me any of the biscuits and gravy.

-Preparing the message for the Sunday after Easter is always a challenge after the energy and focus expended for Easter Sunday. But how we handle things this Sunday is just as important as it was last Sunday. So I better shake the fog out of my mind quickly and get to work.

Here’s hoping that you have a week full of reminders that you are loved and that you are not alone.

Dennis