Monday Morning Musings …

Yesterday was our unofficial kick-off for Vacation Bible School. It made for a very interesting day …

-Vacation Bible School begins tonight.

-Our unofficial kick-off to Vacation Bible School (VBS) was a success. The building was already decorated for VBS. The adults had to duck and dodge some of the decorations. You post and hang things a little lower for children. The platform had been transformed and the worship team and I ministered in the middle of the decorations and props. I loved it, not so sure about some of our adults. Oh well, it is for the kids anyway.

-I preached on the focus of our VBS, which is God’s love. God’s love is incredible, faithful, invincible, unconditional and real. I preached on God’s love is real and what that means for us.

-Maybe it was all the decorations, maybe it was the anticipation of VBS or maybe it was all of the pizza I ate last week but I got very fired up while preaching yesterday.

-We had some major sound issues again yesterday. We really must start addressing this problem.

-Even with the sound issues our worship team did a great job of creating a wonderful spirit during our time of worship.

-We had good attendance once again. This has been a very good summer. We have not had a Sunday with an attendance less than our yearly average from last year. Yeah for no summer slump.

-Not everything is roses. Besides the sound issues I received my first “anonymous complaint” yesterday. I learned a long time ago not to get worked up over anonymous complaints because I can do nothing to dialog with the person who does not put their name on something. I am open to discussing issues, big or small, but it is not possible without a name.

-I received a very encouraging text yesterday afternoon. The person was asking for prayer about a personal struggle in their life. Part of my message yesterday was about God’s love being able to break the chains in our lives. I described a chain as anything that holds you down and prevents you from doing, and being, what God is calling you to do and be. This person took a major step forward in following Christ. Admission is a huge part in overcoming any chain in a person’s life. I loved getting that text, and it had a name on it, so I can follow up with them.

-We are praying earnestly for VBS. For the workers to be able to do get here without work or illness stopping them. Praying for children to come. Praying for lives to be changed and impacted by the love of Jesus. Praying for no rain so the outdoor activities can take place. For the energy and attitudes of the workers to remain high. Praying for impact on unchurched families.

Here’s hoping that receive some reminders this week that God’s love is real.

Dennis

If I Could, I Would … 4 Steps to Get Started

If I Could, I Would … 4 Ways to Get Started

“If ifs and buts were candies and nuts we’d all have a merry Christmas.” Have you ever heard this phrase? I had a relative that tried to use this phrase often, but they sometimes got the words out of order which made the phrase lose it’s real meaning. The point of the phrase, as I understand it, is to remind us that things are rarely perfect and we should therefore just do what we need to do. That is a great thought but not always easy to do.

When we seek to attempt something new, or something we know we should do, there are often mental obstacles that interfere. Then we don’t even get started. Some of these mental objections might be …

Everyone would think I’m crazy.

I don’t have the funds.

I am afraid.

What if it didn’t work?

I am too old, or too young, or don’t have any experience, or …

Do any of these look familiar? What is your “go to” excuse whenever you hesitate to do what you know you should do or when you think of attempting something new?

4 ways to get started:

  1. Quit worrying about the timing and take the first step – Often we hesitate by worrying about the perfect time to try something. We convince ourselves that a better time will come soon. This is a favorite of many people. They then let themselves off the hook of getting started because it is just not the right time. Let me ask you, how long have you been using that one?
  2. Be intentional in getting started – Make a decision and get started. Do it intentionally. Give yourself a deadline and go for it. (I am preaching this to myself at this moment.) If you want to get very serious about this tell it to someone else and ask them to hold you to the deadline.
  3. Don’t go alone – You have all kinds of resources at your disposal. Resources of people, of experiences and with the internet you can search for help in an instant. You don’t have to invent everything. I struggle with this one often. I love creating. But this interferes with getting something done at times when there are helpful resources all around me.
  4. Just do the next right thing – Don’t get hung up on everything that might be needed. Just do the next right thing. Take the next step and the one that is to follow will likely become obvious. You can’t get to the end of a project until you take the next step. So take the next step.

Just get started and see what happens. I can’t guarantee that you will be successful. I can however guarantee that you will be unsuccessful if you don’t get started.

So what will do today to get started? What is your next right step? Take it and watch what happens.

I would love to hear what you are working one and what is happening. I would love to encourage you and pray for you.

Dennis

Monday Morning Musings …

This has been a different summer up to this point. We have had a lot more rain than normal, until last week the temperatures have been well below normal, our summer attendance has been much higher than normal and we are seeing incredible spiritual growth in many people this summer. Oops, I think I already started my musings …

-Our church participated with 6 or 8 other churches, and our local police, to give away two or three hundred backpacks filled with school supplies to elementary and middle school students. Our group also provided a free evening of swimming at the city’s large swimming pool and thanks to a generous donation from a local business we were able to pay for a meal for the students and their families as well. The weather cooperated, people were gracious and the volunteers served with joy. Thanks to all who brought supplies, gave money for supplies, helped with backpacks or who helped give them away. What a great time of watching churches work together and make an impact in our community.

-Yesterday’s message was looking at what Jesus said about solid foundations in your life and making sure your walk matches your talk. No matter what you say, your true convictions are shown by your behavior. Not just your public behavior but what you do when no one is looking as well.

-We celebrated a great praise yesterday. A lady shared with us that her 4 year old great-grandson, for whom we have been praying fervently, is now seeing a shrinking of his cancer! The joy on she and her husband’s face was awesome and our people spontaneously cheered when this was shared.

-Our music was definitely blessed and really moved people during our worship service.

-There were people who came to the altar during our prayer time and there is much evidence that people are really praying throughout the week.

-The congregation was very engaged during the sermon. I even received a text last evening from a young man sharing how God spoke to him during the message. Those types of texts are awesome.

-In my reading through the Bible I am in the Psalms and I Corinthians. The words of the Psalms have been coming alive to me in fresh and powerful ways. Some of it is encouraging and some of it is convicting. But I believe this my most powerful time of reading the Psalms. God’s word is alive.

-We are in a full sprint to finish preparations for our Vacation Bible School which begins next Monday evening. No matter what happens with the children I know that it will change a lot of adults because so many people are working together, are praying and preparing together. For many years I missed the point that the most powerful part of any all church focus, such as Vacation Bible School or revival services, is often what happens among the people who serve side by side through the event.

-This week the church will be transformed with decorations and props for Vacation Bible School. I can’t wait for everyone to see it and to be able to preach next Sunday in midst of the decorations.

-I am working on a couple of future posts about what I have learned during 40 years of marriage. In 3 weeks my wife and I will celebrate the 40th anniversary of our wedding day. I told her this week that I feel much better about us, our marriage and our future than I did on our wedding day. I am a 40 year member of the “Married Way Out of My League Club”.

Here’s hoping you have something to look forward to this week and that you will seek out someone to encourage today.

Dennis

Monday Musings …

What a joy to worship when people are engaged and seeking to hear from God and obey. Yesterday was another day of blessing. Such as …

-We were blessed by a special song sung by a mother and daughter. The song was on God’s amazing grace and the fact that because of this grace we have been set free, our chains are gone. The song is great, but the spirit of the two singing is what made it so special for all of us who were worshiping with them.

-Once again we had a great time of singing and a beautiful spirit in the whole worship service.

-Our attendance was outstanding for the middle of July.

-We keep seeing more people step up to serve in many areas of ministry. We still have needs, but I am humbled, and encouraged as I see more people responding.

-My message was entitled “If I could, I would _____________________” I asked everyone to fill in the blank for themselves. What do you sense God is prompting you to do that you are hesitating with some type of “if” excuse? What is your go to excuse? What is the “if” that you claim is keeping you from doing something you know you should do? Remember that God is still God and will provide what it needed for whatever he guides you toward.

-My wife and I had lunch with a wonderful servant from our church. I love spending time with people who give of themselves in service to others. I am always encouraged being around servant-minded people.

-I then went to visit a precious older lady from our church who had to go into the hospital on Saturday evening. She encouraged me, even though I went there to encourage her she managed to turn it around and make me feel wonderful. I want to follow that example.

-After that I spent some time working on church board reports for a meeting tonight and my wife had a women’s ministry meeting. Then we headed out of town to watch one of the kids from our church play in a championship softball game. It was a full and very rewarding day.

-We have many people who arrive at church long before the first scheduled ministry. They come to prepare the place and themselves for the day. Yesterday the first of those lay people arrived about 2 hours before our Sunday morning small groups (Sunday School classes). There are usually 15+ people in the building well before our breakfast begins at 9.

-We are finally getting summer heat in our weather. I am not happy about that since neither of our vehicles has working A/C.

-I am excited as I hear more from people who are desiring to be involved with discipleship, both learning and sharing. That is awesome!

Here’s hoping that you move past any “if” excuses in your life and enjoy what God is doing in your life.

Dennis

If I could, I would …

This unfinished statement has recently been rolling around in my mind. Granted there is a lot of open space in there, but I keep coming back to it. Then it turns into a question, “If I could what would I do?” That leaves a lot of space for fill in the blanks.

I am in the process of trying to fill in the blanks got myself. It is an exciting and scary process. I am confident that this is going to find its way into a sermon very soon.

How would you finish the statement “If I could, I would ____________________________________________”?

I would love to hear your story on filling in the blank of that statement. You can leave me a comment if you would like, but in some way I would love to hear from you.

I will write more on this very soon.

In the meantime, have some fun and ask people how they would finish that statement. It just might provide some very interesting conversation.

Dennis

Monday Morning Musings …

This was a very good Sunday once again. There are so many positive things happening and I am praying that this momentum will carry us right through any attempts to slow things down that often come from those who feel their church is changing too quickly. As for yesterday’s musings …

-As soon as the worship service finished a lady walked up to me and said, “I am ready to be saved.” That is the start of a great conversation. In a little while she prayed to receive Christ as her personal savior! Moments like those never get old.

-We had a couple from our church celebrate 50 years of marriage yesterday afternoon. I love those kind of celebrations and the example of commitment and love that it is to our community.

-We had some sound issues again. I am praying that we can get our sound system overhauled before the end of this year.

-We had a tremendous time of prayer around the altar in the middle of our worship service. There seems to be more and more people who are really becoming praying people, instead of just people who sometimes pray. Only good things can result for this move in our congregation.

-There was a very good spirit throughout our time of worship. From the music, to the singing, in prayer, in the giving of tithes and offerings, in the message and the response time.

-Our attendance was down, but was still very good for the July 4th weekend and it was right at our average attendance for last year. Not bad for a holiday weekend.

-I am very excited that we had 37 people who committed to be a part of our discipleship ministry. Some are looking to be discipled and a large number also expressed interest in learning to disciple others. That is very encouraging.

-Yesterday I was reflecting on how good our church lawn and building looked. I am so grateful for the 3 men who care for the lawn, and we have a lot of lawn. They sacrifice a lot of time and they often use their own equipment. I am also thankful for the 20+ people who volunteer to clean our building. They range in age from 5 years old to 75 years old. They do a great job. Thanks to all of those who give in these areas of ministry. You usually toil out of people’s sight. I want you to know that I see you and am so thankful for all you do. Your service makes a big difference in the life our church.

-With each passing week my wife and I feel more and more at home in Canton.

-I am more convinced than ever that God has great plans for our church. I believed this when I arrived a year and a half ago, but I believe it even stronger today.

Here’s hoping you believe that God is up to good things where you are serving.

Dennis

Monday Morning Musings …

It is so exciting to be a part of a special move of God. We are in the midst of that here in Canton. Yesterday was more evidence of special things taking place in our church and community…

-The best part of yesterday was witnessing 3 people make a commitment to accept Jesus as their personal savior! Now we must walk alongside them as they grow in their relationship with Christ.

-We had a lot of children in attendance yesterday. Their energy was awesome. Our children’s workers are the best, but they were worn out when the morning was over. Thanks to all who serve in the ministries with our children.

-Our time of greeting and fellowship during the worship service was fun. People were all over the sanctuary greeting people, giving hugs and handshakes. The volume during the greeting time was loud. I loved it!

-We had a good time of testimonies during our worship service.

-Our worship attendance was outstanding. So far we are ignoring the typical summer slump.

-We have had a huge run of people with significant physical needs. We had 4 people have surgery last week. I am ready for this trend to change.

-My wife and I were out of town from Sunday afternoon to Friday afternoon. We were attending a conference on leading worship. Actually my wife was really the one attending the conference, I was along for the ride and went to the evening sessions. The trip allowed us to see quite a bit of family since the conference was near where many of them live.  I was able to spend some time with my Dad and Stepmom. We were able to spend time with our youngest daughter and son-in-law as well. They were attending the conference and brought 4 young adults from their church with them. It was great to watch them minister with this group.

-The evening times of worship at the conference last week were awesome. They were inspiring and encouraging.

-I am trying to spend some significant time praying and planning for the next year.

-We experienced more monsoon rains Sunday evening. We may not completely dry out until September. Maybe I need to preach on Noah.

-Being gone really messed with my prayer times. I have a routine of Bible reading and prayer when I am home and being gone and in a hotel threw me all out of rhythm. I am looking forward to getting back to my more lengthy times of prayer because I need it.

-It is so encouraging to see the genuine excitement among the core group of people as we continue to grow. They are joyful seeing the growth numerically and spiritually. They don’t seem bothered at all that they have had to sit in different places. This is happening because our new people don’t know the seating arrangements. I love it!!!

Here’s hoping that you are reminded that God is still God, no matter what is taking place around you.

Dennis

Guaranteed Impact through Leadership (continued) #4 …

What does this definition describe? “The attitude of someone who works very hard to do or support something”. If you guessed commitment you were correct. Commitment is the difference between surviving and succeeding in your leadership. It is also the difference between surviving or succeeding for your organization. It is a really big deal.

Commitment starts on a personal level. What, and to whom, are you committed? If you cannot answer this question then you are not ready to lead. You must get your personal level commitments settled before you can lead others. For me my commitments start with my commitment to Jesus Christ, then to my wife and family, then to my role as a pastor. I am also committed to being a productive, impactful citizen in my community and the world. There are many sub-categories connected to each of these commitments, but I will leave that for my book. (By the way, leaving things for my book is a common refrain for me. But, who knows maybe I really will write one someday soon.)

Commitment must be tangible. Your commitment cannot be “in name only”. If those around you sense that you are only committed in word, but not in your actions, they will only follow from a distance. They will not follow closely, or with any impact if there is no evidence of your commitment. Understand that living your commitment may not please everyone in your organization, but your commitment must be able to be seen to be followed. If you just try to rally the troops but not lead the troops the troops will accomplish very little. You must be able to put your commitment into words, but if that is where you stop then those around you will stop at your words as well. Live out your commitments.

Commitment must move beyond self-serving. If you are only committed to the betterment of yourself then don’t expect anyone around to follow unless is serves them well. Leadership that makes an impact must not be selfish. Take a look at my post Guranteed Impact through Leadership (continued) #3 and particularly the point about courage showing when the leader makes decisions based on what is best for the organization and the people of the organization not just what makes him/her look best.

Commitment involves believing in your people. No one will accept your statement of commitment to them unless they first know that you believe in them. It is critical to communicate to the people around you that you believe in them, as persons, as important contributors to the organization and that you believe in them for the future. This belief in your people will give them courage to follow, to commit to the organization and to commit to you as their leader.

Commitment is a really big word, but it is an even bigger part of making an impact. So, figure out what you are committed to personally before you make another move in your organization. Then begin to communicate your commitment. Then be sure to live these commitments. At that point you will begin to see some real impact.

Dennis

Monday Musings …

I am just getting a chance to sit down and write these musings because I traveled out of state for a conference. As for the musings …

-Driving 6 hours immediately after finishing a Sunday morning is not a relaxing exercise. Being able to see my Dad on Father’s Day made the drive worth it. I don’t remember the last time I was with my Dad on Father’s Day. We were also with a lot of other family, some of whom we hadn’t seen in 4 years. It was great to see everyone and catch up.

-We had another great Sunday. God really is doing some great things in Canton. This is a fun season of ministry.

-Our Father’s Day breakfast was tremendous. The food was great, they had real sausage gravy and biscuits, ‘nuff said.

-I loved hearing the sound of laughter, conversations and real fellowship taking place during the breakfast.

-We had great attendance. I love that people continue to invite and expect that we will have new people each week. I especially loved that instead of taking Dad somewhere else to celebrate so many of our families brought Dad to church for a real Father’s Day celebration.

-I took a moment in the service to honor two of our former pastors. I am blessed to have two retired ministers, who used to pastor this church, attending regularly. They are some of my biggest supporters, encouragers and prayer warriors. One of them prayers over me every Sunday before I go to preach and the other calls, or stops by periodically to encourage me and pray with me. So I took a couple of minutes out of my sermon to bring them up front, thank them and honor them.

-The message was on examples. For many people this is a point of pain in some relationships because they have either had no example or bad examples in their lives. We looked at healing from that pain and what to look for in examples that we can follow. There was also a challenge to become an example that others can follow.

-On Saturday there was a big birthday celebration for a sweet lady in our church who just turned 90! How cool is that? This week we have been invited to a birthday party for a girl who just turned 3, how is that for contrast?

-Our giving continues to do well. I am so encouraged by the faithfulness and vision that our people are exercising. Only good things can follow this type of commitment.

-I am really looking forward to having a little extra time to read, pray and maybe do a little writing this week. I will also be able to see my Dad a couple of more times before we head back home. Thanks to our church for allowing us to get away for this event and for covering things while we are gone.

Here’s hoping that you are finding things to encourage you and that you are finding people to encourage.

Dennis

7 Things my Dad taught me by his Example …

Examples are powerful teachers. On this Father’s Day I am reflecting on the powerful example my father gave me, and still gives me. Much of what I am today is a result of me following the example of my Dad. Some life changing things he has taught me are …

Love Jesus passionately and depend on him and his Word with each breath you take. My Dad is a great example of loving Jesus.

Laugh a lot. There was always laughter around our house and there still is whenever you are around my Dad. He loved pranks, he loves a good joke and a funny story.

Be committed. My Dad is a picture of commitment. He is committed to Christ. He was committed to my Mom, they were married for 41 years before she died and he has been married to my stepmom for nearly 26 years. He was committed as a pastor for 44 years. He taught me that if you are going to get involved in something be committed to it.

Preach the Word. My Dad was my pastor for all my growing up years but I didn’t have a choice he was a great pastor. He was my pastor for a few years when I was an adult (before I became a pastor) and that was by choice. In fact we drove 30 minutes each way just to have him as our pastor. In all of the years of his ministry he always was faithful to preach God’s Word. He showed me, and told me, that as long as I preached the Word I would be okay, and when I would get in trouble was if I tried to preach my own stuff.

Love people. My Dad loved, and still loves people. He endeared himself to the people he pastored because they knew he loved them. He showed them that love during good times and not so good times. They always knew they were loved.

God is still God. This phrase is my Dad’s ministry in a nutshell. He repeated the phrase often to everyone and he lived it in all areas of his life. It was proven especially during my Mom’s battle with cancer and her early death at age 59. I vividly remember talking with my Dad shortly after my Mom died when he said, “I guess now I will find out for sure if all that I have preached through the years is really true.” Three months after this conversation I reminded Dad of his statement and I asked him if it was really true. His answer was a firm “Yes. Yes it is!” I use that phrase a lot in my ministry because I have seen it to be true, God is still God no matter what.

Be generous. My parents were always generous with their time, with their possessions, with their home, with their stuff and with their money. We never had a lot, but we always shared. What a powerful lesson of being truly generous and trusting God for all things.

There is much more I could share about the things my Dad has taught me by his example and maybe I will share more of them in another post sometime. For today let me just say thanks Dad and happy Father’s Day. I love you.

Dennis