Partnering to Re-Plant, Re-Focus or Re-New …

What if we started replanting churches? Church Planting is at the forefront of evangelism plans and denominational strategies and that is awesome. I am excited about church planting and support it enthusiastically. As a pastor I have helped daughter a church plant, I have taken a church planting intern on staff, I have coached church planters, give financially to support church planting and have helped do some mapping for potential church plants. At one point my wife and I moved to a community for the sole purpose of planting a new church. It didn’t happen due to very poor choices on my part and misunderstanding with some other church leaders. So as you can see I am engaged with, and invested in, church planting.

For some time I have had a growing thought of the need for us to do church “replanting”. Not just a refocus or revitalization of an existing church. My current thought stream on this idea is to actually “replant” churches. I don’t want to get too hung up on the difference in terms. The goal is to see some existing churches renewed in such a way that they are reaching new people, impacting their communities and investing in other churches. I really believe that if we are going to be as impactful with the Gospel as we can be we are going to have to give significant time, energy and resources to replanting some existing churches, while continuing to aggressively plant new churches.

For a few years I have been wrestling with a process of replanting that involves “partnering”. This is where more than one church partners to replant an existing church. This partnering could involve sharing staff, sharing facilities, sharing some physical resources and possibly sharing finances. These concepts have been used to plant many new churches and I believe with some adjustments could be used to replant existing churches.

A few years ago I approached a ministry leader with this concept of partnering to replant, or renew, an existing church. The individual was polite and listened but did not encourage me to pursue it at all, so I let it rest. Then a while later I put some of the thoughts on paper and even created a partial plan for a church and shared it with another ministry leader. This person was more receptive and took the material but I never heard anything back. So I let it rest some more and I am now feeling a stirring again to throw the ideas out there and see if anyone else thinks it has merit.

I realize that in this blog post I am just presenting a vague concept, but to be honest I am a little gun shy. What do you think of the big picture concept of partnering to replant an existing church? What other questions would you have if someone approached you with this concept? What drawbacks come to your mind? Do you see any possibilities in this?

I am working on creating a plan on paper, but don’t know if I will share it or just do it to see how far I can develop it. The title of this blog is “Pastorsview” and the tag line is “We all have a view of the world, this is mine.” So I guess today I am just sharing my view of the idea of replanting existing churches. What is your view?

Here’s hoping I hear from some of you.

Dennis

Dictator, Delegator, Pollster, or Coach …

Which one best describes you? In his most recent podcast Michael Hyatt (at michaelhyatt.com and click on podcasts) titled “The 5 Benefits of Collaboration” he made the statement “Being a dictator is very efficient, it just isn’t not very effective.” I wrote it down when and have been rolling it around in my mind (lot’s empty space in there) and wrestling with how I lead in my church. Not how I claim to lead, or how I want to lead, but how I really lead.

Michael Hyatt’s statement is so true in the long haul. The temptation to lead as a dictator is because it works in the short term. For a while it can work both efficiently and effectively. But only for a while. Being a dictator is often quicker, no one to check with and no discussions on what to do next. You choose and then move. There are many problems with this method of leadership in any setting, but especially in the church. One problem is that, contrary to what your ego may tell you, you don’t know everything. Even if you are the smartest person in the room you still don’t know everything. Another problem with dictatorship is that no one else is engaged or invested in whatever you are leading. If you simply dictate, people will wait for your decree and then do what you have declared. That is not a recipe for a vibrant group. Another problem is that you will be missing great ideas if you don’t engage others and listen to their thinking. In the church, the biggest problem is that we are already under authority as a follower of Christ. We are to seek his word, his will, his ways and not our own.

Delegators answer a few of the problems of a dictator. They involve other people, but too often we only involve them as we hand things off. As a delegator we at least realize we can’t do everything, but unless you are inviting others to share in the decisions you can simply become a less obnoxious dictator. Delegation is vital in vibrant organizations, but we must be careful that we are not just “dumping” things on them as John Maxwell would say.

Pollsters, this is my polite term for politicians. It appears that at this time our political leaders have become nothing more than pollsters. They seem to make all their decisions based on what will satisfy their constituents, rather than on what is best or right. As leaders in a church we must be very careful of becoming this type of leader. We are to be following Christ and not the whims of people. We must be aware of what people are thinking and it is wise to know what people like. However, the likes and whims of people cannot be the determining factor of our leadership decisions.

Coaching is an increasingly popular image for leadership. Having coached various sports for more than 20 seasons I like the coaching image. Coaches have to make solo decisions at times. Some coaches have assistant coaches and listen to their expertise in leading their organization. Great coaches have relationships with the team and invite their thoughts when decisions are to be made. Coaching seems a much better image for leadership in a church than the other three for sure. It is not completely adequate because we are followers of Christ first and foremost. But the methods of good coaching and good pastoring appear to have a lot in common.

Which of these four pictures of leadership best describes your leadership in this past year? Not which one do you prefer, but which one would those you are leading choose to describe your leadership? What do you think of these pictures?

Here’s hoping you are following Christ closely enough to lead as he leads.

Dennis

Oops! Did I really just do/say that? …

In my reading this week I came across a list of actual statements made on résumés. I am confident that these statements did not come out exactly as the individual intended for them to appear. See if you agree:

-“Proven ability to track down and correct erors.”

-“Referees available upon request.”

-“Experienced in all faucets of accounting.”

-“Worked party-time as an office assistant.”

(These are courtesy of Dan Miller in his book “48 Days to the Work Love”. He was quoting from an article in National Business Employment Weekly.)

True confession time, did you have to read any of the above statements twice to find the error?

Reading the list of misstatements got me to thinking about times when I have had something escape my mouth while preaching or teaching that caused me to try and take it back immediately. Or worse yet, causes my wife to try hide as everyone turns to see her reaction. Some of these have been mild and others were cringe worthy. There was even one that nearly ended a worship service during announcements. Can you relate to this at all? Please, someone let me know that I am not the only one.

I have also wondered sometimes why some people have said what they said out loud. While honesty is necessary in our lives so is wisdom. Wisdom at times helps us to not say something just because it came to mind. Wisdom at times helps us to speak truth, but as scripture instructs we are to speak it in love. So what is missing in those times when what escapes our mouth is something we wish we could retract?

I guess today is one of those “random thoughts” kind of days. Good thing I am not speaking to any group today or I might be seeking to retrieve some of my words.

Dennis

Monday Morning Musings …

My reflecting this Monday morning is all over the place. Thoughts are bouncing from yesterday’s events, to my kids/grandkids in Africa, to next steps at the church, to trying to get away for some vacation time and many things in between. This scattered thinking is making my Monday morning routine of reflecting and evaluating the happenings from Sunday difficult. You have been warned that these musings may bounce around a bit. Read on at your own risk.

-We heard a couple of great praises from testimonies in our worship service. One involved God’s faithfulness and powerful presence during a difficult experience and one involved a physical answer to prayer from a long time problem. I love hearing testimonies of what God is up to in people’s lives. We don’t provide enough avenues for this to take place. Need to work on that one.

-The congregation seemed very engaged in the message yesterday. That is actually surprising to me because I felt like my words were not as clear as I had envisioned. Just another example of God doing his thing in spite of me. That probably happens more often than I am even aware. For that we can all say “thank you Jesus”. (Or at least those who hear me preach often should be saying it.)

-Our attendance was much higher than anticipated for a holiday weekend. Not complaining, just observing and rejoicing over the growth that God is creating.
-While our morning worship attendance was higher than expected our small group attendance was lower than expected. We had some very good discussion and God is obviously speaking into the life of many in the group in powerful ways. The hearing of individual’s discoveries from God’s Word and the great questions they are working through is very exciting.

-The area where my kids and grandkids are serving as missionaries continues to have some scary stuff happening. I trust God and believe they are right where he wants them to be at this time. As a dad and grandpa I still worry a bit. It certainly makes for more intensity in my prayer times.

-I love the wisdom of those who have followed Christ for many years and I ache as I see some of them struggling physically and emotionally with changes in their lives. It is on their shoulders that we are standing. Let us never forget or take that for granted.

-I am humbled when I know someone is really praying for me and my ministry.

-I keep seeing signs that God is up to something really special in our church and community. Lord help me not to get the way, instead I want to be in the flow of your movement. Lord help me to see your plans and to courageously serve in them.

So how is your Monday reflecting going? What did you learn yesterday? Where are you headed this week? Here’s hoping you are sensing and seeing God’s hand in your life and service.

Dennis

A Peek Into a Pastor’s Sunday Morning …

Not every Pastor has the same routines on a Sunday morning, so I guess the title of this blog should have been “A Peek Into This Pastor’s Sunday Morning …”. But no matter who the pastor is there are some things that are similar for every pastor. I have refined my routines over the years and this is what it looks like today.

My alarm goes off between 4:30 and 4:45 on Sunday mornings. Many Sundays I wake up before my alarm goes off and I just get up then. At this point I begin the getting ready for the day process. Usually this includes making a cup of coffee with our Keurig. I feel obligated to give a huge nod of approval to Keurig coffee makers. Before we had a Keurig I didn’t have a cup of coffee until I got to church and would make a pot. Now I can make a cup and really start to get going early.

I arrive at church anywhere from 5:00 to 5:20. I love this time on Sundays. I am the only one in the building for quite a while. Normally one of the first things I do is make a pot of coffee. What comes next can any one of a few things. I might walk around the building, making sure everything is okay and praying for the people and ministries that will be in those areas. I will check my email and social media at some point. I will do a devotion and have one of several prayer times.

After a while I settle in my office and go over my sermon for that morning. I will usually eat a bagel or English muffin during this time period. I often make a few changes, or add something to the sermon at this time. Then I go into the Sanctuary/Worship Center and run through the sermon. When I run through I actually preach it out loud. I look around the room and picture those who will likely be seated in a certain area. (Many of you sit in the same place every Sunday, so it is easy to envision you during this time. If you think your pastor is preaching directly at you try changing where you sit, it may take your pastor a couple of weeks to find you.) It is not unusual for me to stop and write something on my outline during this run through. Parts of the sermon sound different when you say it out loud.

Why do I do a “dress rehearsal” early Sunday morning? Because it really cements the message in my mind and helps me to not be tied too tightly into looking at my notes. Also, as I mentioned earlier, some things just sound different when you say them out loud than they sounded in my mind when I pounded them out on my keyboard. This also helps me to know the timing of the sermon. I learn how long it should take and any areas that I can easily get bogged down in and need to move through quicker. I pray for the sermon, the service and the congregation during this time.

It is usually a little after 7:30 by now. I may take another walk around the building or settle back into my office. I will often send an email, facebook message or text to a pastor friend at this point to encourage them or let them know that I am praying for them as they preach that day. I will often read a little in a book that is on my current reading list. If I am teaching a Sunday School class at the time, I will go over my lesson for that morning again and make sure my room is ready for the day.

Soon people begin to come in the building, making breakfast, getting their Sunday School room ready or to do a final run through of the music and sound for the worship service. At this point I may begin to drift around the building again checking in on people and seeing if I can help them with anything. I pray for them as I see them or hear them. If everything is going smoothly I go back to my office to pray, make sure my notes are in order and really start to get my game face on, so to speak.

If I am teaching a Sunday School class I get there and greet my students. If I am not currently teaching a class I move around the building seeing how Sunday School is going and listening in on a few classes. I pray for the teachers during this time.

Then it is time to gather everything I need, make sure my mic is in place and working properly. (At my current church a retired pastor comes in my office at this point and prays over me. This is a powerful moment for me.) Then I go out and begin talking with people who are already in their places. I like to move around and speak with several people, it is good time to greet them and to get a feel for the atmosphere of the day. There is usually some point of checking in with the worship leader or sound person. Then we worship.

This is a picture of typical Sunday morning for me. What does yours look like? Any questions on what I do or why I do what I do? I will leave the rest of a typical Sunday for another post someday. Here’s hoping your Sundays are awesome.

Dennis

7 Lessons learned from Vacation Bible School …

We recently finished a Vacation Bible School in our church. It has been a few years since a church where I was pastor did a somewhat traditional VBS. I was reminded of some of the reasons why I hadn’t done one for a few years and I was overwhelmingly struck by the positive aspects of VBS. I believe each church has to evaluate the practicality and benefits of a VBS in their own community. With that being said here are a few lessons I learned during our recent VBS.

-Enthusiasm is attractive – One of the great things about kids is that if you are enthusiastic they will get into whatever you are sharing. I believe adults need to be reminded that enthusiasm is attractive. Enthusiasm can draw people into church and it can attract people to Christ. Too often we sin by taking the greatest truth and boring people with the good news of the gospel. VBS is anything but boring, at least if it goes well.

-Smiles make your day – Kids smile a lot. I like seeing smiles. When you smile at someone they will usually smile back. When you smile you feel better and if you can make someone else smile you help them feel better as well. What if you committed to smiling at everyone you make eye contact with tomorrow? Now don’t avoid eye contact so you don’t have to smile. Commit to smiling as you make eye contact with people for a day and watch what happens.

-It takes many hands for it to work – A lady in my church said to me the day before our VBS began that one of her favorite things about VBS is that so many people in the church work together to make it happen. I will confess I had not been viewing VBS in this way. As the week went on I recognized how true her statement was and it revolutionized my thinking. It takes people doing all kinds of things and it takes people who are willing to do whatever is needed on that day.

-The greatest outcome may be the fellowship of the adults who served – This was true fellowship. Not eating a meal together, but serving together and there was much sharing that took place as they served. We had some people matched up with people that they really did not know until they served together. This produced some great results.

-Focusing on kids is a life changer – Whenever you focus on kids you will see lives changed. Your life will be different and so will the life of the kids. I have only been the pastor of this church for 5 months. As a result I didn’t know the children all that well. Serving in our VBS helped me get to know the kids and I really fell in love with them. I was changed by the kids and by serving in VBS. I saw some of the kids really respond. Before that week the kids knew I was the pastor, but now they know me and some of them even like me.

-Repeating something out loud inscribes it on your mind – We did a lot of “repeat after me” during VBS. We did this with the theme for each night and with memory verses. The kids knew their stuff and so did I. I am still figuring out how to do more of this in my teaching and preaching. I wonder if I can get their parents, and grandparents to yell some answers out during the sermon.

-Giving should be fun – The kids got so excited to bring in their offerings. They were especially excited to give to sponsor a child from another country. Yes, some of the money was handouts from their parents and some was from the workers. But, many kids brought in money from their own banks from home. The joy on their faces when they gave and when they celebrated how much was given was great to see. I wish we adults would give with that kind of joy.

We had parents and some other relatives come on Sunday morning and for our picnic celebration after worship. I am praying that we will see some of them return in the weeks to come. We had children who accepted Jesus as their personal Savior. Bottom line, our Vacation Bible School was definitely worth the time, effort and money. Also, the lessons learned were definitely worth it. Now to stretch these lessons into all of our ministries.

Do you do VBS? If so, how did it go? If not, why did you choose not to do one?

Dennis

5 Lessons learned from my Colonoscopy …

I had my first colonoscopy a couple of days ago. It was an experience that I would prefer not to repeat very often. Fortunately the doctor gave me a good report and I am very grateful for that report. I am always looking for real life experiences to use in sermon illustrations. Much of what takes place surrounding a colonoscopy is probably not appropriate for sermon illustrations, at least not if I desire to remain in my pastorate. However, there are some lessons that can be learned from the experience that I believe are transferable to my ministry.

-Preparation is a big deal. Preparation for a colonoscopy is a full day experience, sometimes longer. The event took 20 to 30 minutes but the preparation for it was 24+ hours. I need to remember this more often in my ministry. The preparation is as, if not more, important than the event itself. In fact the outcome of the event is determined by the preparation.

-It takes a team. I encountered at least 14 different people in my short event at the hospital. The focus is on the doctor, but before the doctor did his/her thing I had engaged with 13 other people. I hope the doctor realizes how valuable the whole team is to his/her success. I was reminded of how many people are involved with a Sunday morning worship service as I went through this process. I must do better at thanking my team, and do better in praying for them and do better in making sure they realize how valuable they are to the whole process.

-A personal touch makes a difference. I had my own nurse from arriving in the procedure area until I was dismissed to leave. It was reassuring to have that same voice caring for me when I came out of the procedure as I had before I went into the procedure. I must remember that a personal touch makes a difference at church. Whether it is a greeter, a teacher, an usher, a worship leader, the pastor or the person who is seated nearby, a personal touch will be remembered.

-Encouragement is a big deal. I didn’t have anyone chanting my name as I went in for the procedure (that would have cool though). I did encounter many who assured me that they knew what they were doing and that I was in very good hands with all who were caring for me. I was encouraged by them saying that I would do fine and that I would do well as I went home. Encouragement is a powerful thing for everyone. We all have different needs when it comes to what type of encouragement speaks the best to us. But all of us do better with encouragement than without. We need to be great encouragers in the church and as we encounter people anywhere.

-Being treated with competence brings you back. Not that I am looking to go back and repeat this procedure just because I was treated well. However, I was encouraged by how they did their jobs so that when I need another medical procedure these are people I will choose. That is a transferable principle for the church and me as the pastor. I want us to do so well at what we do that people will have confidence to come back again.

Here’s hoping I will do better at these things in my ministry. What do you think of these lessons? Can you see how they apply to your ministry? What are you doing to see that they are being done where you serve?

Dennis

Musings of a late nature …

I try to do a “Monday Morning Musings …” post on Monday mornings, thus the title of the posts. This week I didn’t quite make it considering that it is now Tuesday evening. My excuse, I had a colonoscopy on Monday morning. I don’t know if you consider that a good excuse or not. My guess is that if you have ever had one, you consider it a good excuse. If you have never had one then you may not understand why I didn’t get it done. Just wait, your time is coming.

Since it is now Tuesday evening, I am going to broaden my musings a bit. As for Sunday, we had a tremendous day at our church. Our VBS (Vacation Bible School) was last week. It went well and finished even better. We three or four times our normal Sunday children’s attendance come to our VBS. We saw several children pray to accept Christ as their personal Savior! (That is the biggest highlight of the week.) We had over 40% of our Sunday morning average Worship attendance help in our VBS. (Re-read that last sentence. Not 40% of our adults, 40% of our average Sunday morning worship attendance! This is going to be a great moment in the history of our church.) Our workers were awesome! There were some newer people who served and there was some great fellowship, real solid fellowship, taking place as people served together. I really feel in love with the children as I got to know them in a much better way than I had before. The kids brought in more than enough money to sponsor a child’s education in another country for 1 year.

Then on Sunday, the kids rocked the house during our worship service. They showed us how to worship with enthusiasm. They shared the lessons they learned for the Word and they were very attentive during the whole service. I shared a brief message and some adults and more children prayed to receive Christ as their Savior!!! We had a great attendance, only 5 fewer than we had on Easter Sunday morning. Then we had a picnic to celebrate a great week of VBS and not only did we have a great number who attended they hung around and talked with each other a long time. I love seeing that kind of fellowship. Then our workers stayed and cleaned up the place. I am so humbled by all the hard work so many people did this week. I am blessed to be their pastor.

The report from the Doctor to my wife is that everything looked good from my test. (I don’t know what the Doctor said because I wasn’t real aware at that point.) I must confess I am not a fan of the day before preparation for a colonoscopy. Here’s hoping I don’t have to go through that again for quite a while.

Some lessons I learned from my medical experience and working in our VBS … on second thought, let’s make that tomorrow’s post.

Here’s hoping you survived your Monday morning and are having a great start to your week. What did you learn this weekend?

 

Dennis